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dear-jamila:

davidtennantspants:

lovinglydull:

gondolas-and-shit:

Ahahahahahahaha?? Flawed logic, insinuating that all people were the same?? HAAHAHAHAHA?

>Implying jealousy and unfaithfulness are mutually exclusive.
You don’t get out much, do you, lyssx?

WHOOPS I’M A BAD SIGNIFICANT OTHER APPARENTLY, BECAUSE I’VE NEVER GOTTEN JEALOUS AND I’VE ALWAYS BEEN FAITHFUL.

God this is the most bullshit fact I’ve ever seen, haha. My ex and I are still bros, and his fiance is super sweet and totes chill with me. If he’s talking to me, she’s not jealous because he’s not paying attention to her. Does that make her a bad person? No. It makes it so she’s showing a modicum of SENSE.

Uh, how about no. How about, if your girlfriend gets jealous, and she is not actively stopping it herself (because jealousy can happen even in those with absolute faith), then she lacks the trust in her boy/girlfriend. Jealousy comes from those who know that at the end of the day, there is a .001% chance that they may not come home to them. Those who are jealous, have doubts. They have fears. Is it wrong for them to have those feelings? No, not at all. But it sure as hell doesn’t give a clear impression of “I love you unconditionally.” If someone else “has” or “gets them”, rather than the jealous girl, that jealousy becomes rage, anger, and sadness. All signs of someone who has lost the will to love them unconditionally, because the one they love made a choice, and it wasn’t them, and they didn’t support it, nor did they question it to see where either side stepped up or stepped down.
A jealous girlfriend, is an fearful girlfriend, unable to trust that her guy/gal’s love is completely for her.

dear-jamila:

davidtennantspants:

lovinglydull:

gondolas-and-shit:

Ahahahahahahaha?? Flawed logic, insinuating that all people were the same?? HAAHAHAHAHA?

>Implying jealousy and unfaithfulness are mutually exclusive.

You don’t get out much, do you, lyssx?

WHOOPS I’M A BAD SIGNIFICANT OTHER APPARENTLY, BECAUSE I’VE NEVER GOTTEN JEALOUS AND I’VE ALWAYS BEEN FAITHFUL.

God this is the most bullshit fact I’ve ever seen, haha. My ex and I are still bros, and his fiance is super sweet and totes chill with me. If he’s talking to me, she’s not jealous because he’s not paying attention to her. Does that make her a bad person? No. It makes it so she’s showing a modicum of SENSE.

Uh, how about no. How about, if your girlfriend gets jealous, and she is not actively stopping it herself (because jealousy can happen even in those with absolute faith), then she lacks the trust in her boy/girlfriend. Jealousy comes from those who know that at the end of the day, there is a .001% chance that they may not come home to them. Those who are jealous, have doubts. They have fears. Is it wrong for them to have those feelings? No, not at all. But it sure as hell doesn’t give a clear impression of “I love you unconditionally.” If someone else “has” or “gets them”, rather than the jealous girl, that jealousy becomes rage, anger, and sadness. All signs of someone who has lost the will to love them unconditionally, because the one they love made a choice, and it wasn’t them, and they didn’t support it, nor did they question it to see where either side stepped up or stepped down.

A jealous girlfriend, is an fearful girlfriend, unable to trust that her guy/gal’s love is completely for her.

(Source: lyssx)